4. Surprise her
You don’t always have to go big when it comes to surprising her. Yes, pulling out all stops to surprise her on her birthdays or anniversaries will mean a great deal for her and will benefit your relationship but that doesn’t mean you have to do it big all the time. She will have only one birthday and one anniversary a year but there are countless other days when you can surprise her with the little things. Buy her a random gift, take her to a sudden shopping trip. Girls love flowers, so surprise her with her favorite ones. Or you could simply drop by at her office for lunch and surprise her there. Cooking her favorite dish or bringing breakfast to bed will make her day that much better as well.