4. You concentrate on being with your partner, not what you are doing together
Getting things done from a to-do list isn’t the way to go if you want your relationship to last and heal. It’s important to take time out to connect by just hanging out, laughing together, sharing thoughts about your day and people, entrusting secrets, making love and so on. Focus more on your partner and not where you are or what you are doing. It will be the moments with him that will last in the future, not how successfully or unsuccessfully you planned and got your work done.