4. Family stuffs
Guys are likely to do these the most. Either their mom prepares some food or they have a big family gathering or some sort of family function. They tend to swing with the girl in such places full of family members where the girl feels awkward, shy, and uncomfortable and a bit off!
In general it is better to be just you and her on the first date. Spend some one on one time together to get to know each other well enough. Invite her to a family gathering in some other time of the weekend or when you are free.