4. Appreciated
This is somewhat similar to the previous point but with slight variations. As much as people say that men have larger egos, it’s the women who long for appreciation. It’s like an ego boost for them. They want to hear how good they look, what a great dish they cooked, and how amazing life is with them in it. In most marriages, the spouse takes each other for granted, and thus all the appreciation and flirting stops. So when she meets somebody who appreciates her, she feels loved again and gets tempted to cheat.