4. Focus is on people
One of the biggest secrets of irresistible people is that they focus on the people. They follow the “make them feel special” rule thoroughly. They won’t be talking about themselves or trying to steer the conversation towards them but rather make you talk, open up, and will listen attentively. This kind of attention makes others feel wanted and makes them feel special. Thereby people will be drawn to them automatically. And the best part is they will actually remember everything you tell them. They might even act or do things based on what you said later on in life.