3. Skip the small talk
Small talks are good. They help you to break the ice. But for how long can you carry on with the small talks? It only alienates the person you are talking to. Sometimes it is better to skip the small talk and go beyond it. Get to know the person. Ask him what is new in his or her life. Talk about their family and hobbies and so on. These give you an insight to their lives and can help you learn something. Getting to know more people is actually a good way to find happiness.