3. Give them some hints to make the first move
No one likes to get rejected. Men also don’t want to get their feelings hurt. If you are not liking or getting attracted to a man, give him a hint about your feeling, so that he doesn’t have to get humiliated later. I’m sure, he is going to respect your feeling and decision. But don’t drag him into a situation where he will get nothing but some humiliations
On the other hand, if you are really enjoying his company, and most importantly him as a person, express it so that he takes the step to the next level. If you cannot tell them, why don’t you make the first move?