4. Children not always wanted
This point may be hard for a lot of people to accept. A lot of married men have secretly confessed that they wish they did not have children. It’s not like they never wanted children, they just wished they had children a bit later. They wonder about how much they could have saved if they did not have a child. Some even say that they have lost their freedom because they have to give their free time looking after their kids and not party around. Some even complained that they are stuck doing a job they hate but haven’t quit because the pay helps take care of their children.