7 Signs Your “Caring” Partner Is Actually Controlling You

5. The things you share with them start to violate your personal boundaries.

When two people love each other, it’s normal for them to want to know more about the person they’re with. However, it’s not OK to pressure your partner to share something they don’t want to–it means that they don’t care about you and your feelings. They just want to know more about you so that they can keep control of the relationship by knowing what could hurt or upset you.