6. Stop defending your significant other
The moment when you find yourself at warfare with people around you and yourself defending your partner for his/her imprudent actions; be sure that you are with the wrong soul. You keep on eluding your consciousness by saying everything is alright though nothing is. If you do not have the guts to tell your partner about his wronging, you have to stand these actions forever and a time might come that you won’t be able to bear him/her anymore, but unfortunately you have to as you realized very late.