5. They hate it when you hold the past over them
After you make up after a fight or argument, let it all go. Don’t remind them of something they said six months later. Not only is this behavior hurtful, it is also blatantly manipulative. Once an issue is resolved, it belongs to the past. If his behavior angers you, tell him why you are frustrated and give yourself some room to cool off. Whatever you do, don’t bring up the past and use it as a weapon.