2. Don’t expect people to change suddenly
Just because you have explained your discomfort or problems that you have with your friends or others, does not mean they will change for you. Yes, some people may change their habits or themselves but it’s a very rare case. You can’t expect everyone to change just like that. They need time and sufficient reason to change. You cannot force somebody to change, it’s their life and their way of living. You just have to deal with it, accept their flaws or whatever it is that discomforts you. If that proves too much for you to bear, then you got to live without them. It may sound harsh, but that’s life. When you let them be themselves then they gradually change into what you want them to be. That’s the beauty of freedom. So don’t go around and impose your will on anyone.